Finding a wife
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have much experience with dogs,cats and wives. outcomes with wives haves been sub optimal. dogs and cats have been fine. no experience with goats.
Here's another aspect about being married. IMHO, it started with the television sitcoms from the 1960s to today. The pattern for the typical family sitcom was to portray the husband as being an idiot, fat and bald. The wife was slim, smart and beautiful. The entire episode was for the wife and kids to poke fun at the father.
Little girls grew up with that. Exposure to shows like that along with the education system and courts that favored the harpies and wallet vampires brought disaster to traditional families and men to a synergistic level.
This is a Pearl double-feature. She exposes the "trad-wives" for what they really are. Even if you don't marry a woman that "jokes" about you on social media, there are ones that never miss a beat to put you down and make fun of you in front of your children, friends and family. Been there and experienced it.
The biggest casualty with that sort of "joking" are the children. When they are in the toddler stage, the only thing they learn is that Dad is an idiot and Mom is the genius. If not corrected, they are the ones that tell the judge they want to live with mommy during the custody battle.
Maybe the ragheads have something to the way they treat their women. The women that think they are oppressed in the western world ought to go live in a muslim country and see how much better they have it here.
I actually had some long conversations with a lady who, as part of her job, had to travel into muslim countries. She had to comply with their shitty sharia law and was beaten on the street for the most minor infractions. Simply put; we would never treat a dog the way the ragheads treat their women. One of this lady's most memorable things she told me was; "Western women do not know how great they have it here. They are so spoiled and entitled."
Raise your hands if you have ever had to endure a constant stream of petty insults, put-downs, disrespect and ridicules from your beautiful bride that was cloaked in the form of "friendly joking."
Little girls grew up with that. Exposure to shows like that along with the education system and courts that favored the harpies and wallet vampires brought disaster to traditional families and men to a synergistic level.
This is a Pearl double-feature. She exposes the "trad-wives" for what they really are. Even if you don't marry a woman that "jokes" about you on social media, there are ones that never miss a beat to put you down and make fun of you in front of your children, friends and family. Been there and experienced it.
The biggest casualty with that sort of "joking" are the children. When they are in the toddler stage, the only thing they learn is that Dad is an idiot and Mom is the genius. If not corrected, they are the ones that tell the judge they want to live with mommy during the custody battle.
Maybe the ragheads have something to the way they treat their women. The women that think they are oppressed in the western world ought to go live in a muslim country and see how much better they have it here.
I actually had some long conversations with a lady who, as part of her job, had to travel into muslim countries. She had to comply with their shitty sharia law and was beaten on the street for the most minor infractions. Simply put; we would never treat a dog the way the ragheads treat their women. One of this lady's most memorable things she told me was; "Western women do not know how great they have it here. They are so spoiled and entitled."
Raise your hands if you have ever had to endure a constant stream of petty insults, put-downs, disrespect and ridicules from your beautiful bride that was cloaked in the form of "friendly joking."
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She says it all in the lower video, and proves it. And she uses this ass kissing idiot of a guy as a perfect example. Men are far more to blame for today's fucked up women, than the women themselves are. Women are no different than young kids. They're ALWAYS testing to see just how much they can get away with.... And then push for even more. This dickless ass clown takes his dominate wife's side, and proves it.
He's like a trained monkey in a circus act. Now everyone can plainly see how well it all worked out for him. In spite of all of his ridiculous cuckold ass kissing, along with all the defending of this worthless, irritating, self centered bitch, she divorced him anyway to the tune of $30K a month.
When I was working, I saw much the same with most of my coworkers wives and girlfriends. At company sponsored events like the company picnic and Christmas party.
Many of these women were unsocial, irritating bitches. Who made their husbands go to the open bar for them, and get their drinks. Because they were both too lazy, and wanted to show everyone, just how tight of a leash they had them on.
And they obeyed like good little puppies. During dinner, most of them didn't initiate any conversation at the table. Because they were afraid they might say the wrong thing in front of their bitches, and get jumped on for it in front of everyone...... And many did get publicly scolded.
These guys were completely different at work. Their wives would tell them when SHE thought they had enough to drink.... And they obeyed. I could tell just by looking, at how miserable they were. If any of them smiled, their faces would crack and fall off. They were on pins and needles all night long.
They had to dance when SHE wanted to. At the Picnic they had to watch the kids. They had to go get the food. They had to run to the car to get this or that. While their fucked up wives did nothing but sit on their mostly fat asses. Then, to top it off, they had to leave when SHE wanted to.
And I've been retired for the last 10 years. I can't even begin to imagine how bad it has gotten now. Especially with everything getting plastered all over social media these days.
Bottom line. Be a good provider for your wife and family, and treat them well. No one is saying otherwise. But don't be a dickless, ass kissing cuck. Show her at least some balls, before she ends up cutting yours off.
This happens thousands of times each day, behind closed doors. However, I disagree with this gentleman on one point.
He maintains that nobody, not even Baldwin, deserves to be treated this way. I disagree. Baldwin, because he's such a turd, deserves everything he gets from this mouthy cunt.
Otherwise, this is an excellent example of what men contemplating matrimony can expect. To the young men thinking about marriage I say; even if she's respectful now, that will most likely change after she gets a ring on her finger.
You have been warned.
He maintains that nobody, not even Baldwin, deserves to be treated this way. I disagree. Baldwin, because he's such a turd, deserves everything he gets from this mouthy cunt.
Otherwise, this is an excellent example of what men contemplating matrimony can expect. To the young men thinking about marriage I say; even if she's respectful now, that will most likely change after she gets a ring on her finger.
You have been warned.
If ANY woman EVER treated me in that manner in public, right or wrong, acceptable or not, I would have cracked that arrogant, condescending bitch right across the face.
To paraphrase John Wayne in the movie, "The Shootist"... "I won't be wronged, I won't be insulted, and I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to other people, and I require the same from them".
It is every bit as true and effective today, as it was 120 years ago. Be they male of female.
To paraphrase John Wayne in the movie, "The Shootist"... "I won't be wronged, I won't be insulted, and I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to other people, and I require the same from them".
It is every bit as true and effective today, as it was 120 years ago. Be they male of female.
I wouldn't blame anyone for giving Alice Kramden "a trip to the moon." However, if you do that, you will be playing right into their hands.
Women will bait their husbands into losing their temper and even smacking them across the mouth. Do that and you will be looking at jail time and a conviction for domestic violence.
I cannot emphasize this enough. The women will be looking for an opportunity to point a finger at you and say; "See! He always does this. He is constantly losing his temper. I'm in fear for my life and that of my children. He needs locked up"
Give the mouthy cunt a black eye and that's evidence against you. Get a domestic violence charge against you and you will be ruined. Also kiss you're guns goodbye.
And if you live in a red-flag state, she won't even need to show a black eye. It will be her word against yours. She will pour on the waterworks in front of a judge at an ex-parte hearing.
The next thing you know, the SWAT team will be knocking down your door at 3:00 AM and you will be handcuffed in the front yard while they are throwing your prized firearms on a tarp to be bundled up and taken away.
You won't be able to tell the cops that you've been wronged. They will respond, "tell it to the judge."
I have learned the hard way that to respond to women like that is to simply walk away. If you must speak, be very respectful, polite, sweet and kind. Try to talk like Mr. Rogers. I'm not joking about the Mr. Rogers part!
Does that sound like giving in. Yes it does but NEVER give them an excuse to point a finger at you and level false allegations against you.
I guarantee you, the sweet approach will set them off and they will resort to acting like a squealing pig. They may even resort to throwing the first punch or using sharp objects against you.
Try to get out before that happens. Remember that her most powerful weapon are the courts and your chance of survival is as good as swimming naked in the Bering Sea.
Always assume that you will be recorded. The audio or video evidence will start when you react. The part where she gets mouthy or yelling will NEVER be part of the evidence. Only the part where you shout will be heard by a cunt judge.
You must ALWAYS show that you are the responsible adult. You may even have to appear to be a pussy. That's a shame but it's better than a domestic violence charge.
Has anyone ever heard of a man getting a criminal charge against him for being a pussy? No.
If you call my approach acting like a pussy, I don't care. You won't be a pussy but what you will be doing is denying a mouthy aggressive cunt a victory. Let that sink in.
Sometimes battles are one by the army that feigns a retreat to suck the enemy into an ambush. Again, let that sink in.
You won't be able to change a cunt's mind about you but you won't be giving her ammunition to use against you.
I don't have to communicate with the ex-wife anymore but when I did, it was by court-ordered e-mail.
I started off each e-mail with "Dear _______." I let my words drip with honey but still used the facts to back up whatever I was trying to say.
I would end every message with "Have a great day!" Or "Have a fantastic week." Or I would end with, "I look forward to discussing this more with you." With the last e-mail that I ever had to send, I told her to "Have a great life."
Just like the southern women say, "Bless your heart," that's translated as "fuck you."
You can tell your beautiful bride to go fuck herself when you say "Have a great day." It will make them almost apoplectic with anger.
The ex-wife's responses were always angry ones after that, and entertaining.
My old man would give me advice with kids that would taunt me when I was younger. It didn't sink in till I got older. He would tell me to never let them see me get angry. "If they see you get angry, it encourages them and they will act even worse toward you."
I was still told that I could defend myself if I was physically attacked. Yet as a grew older, I could see his advice about not showing anger would just enrage the assholes. These mouthy cunts are the same way.
It's better to get out of the relationship while at the same time, acting like you are the nicest person in the world.
Mr. Rogers was not a pussy.
Totally sage advice for the modern world right there.
While I cannot argue with a thing you have said, I still would have cracked her.
I understand. Whenever a man is mistreated by a mouthy cunt he has every right to get angry. The anger is completely justified.
Heck, I'm still angry about how I was treated by my ex-wives.
The important thing to remember is to never show your anger. That will always be used against you and it will never end well.
The anger is ok but showing it isn't. Let them show their anger while you turn the tables on them.
I'll add from personal experience that "she" is wanting a reaction from you, actually baiting you for it. By walking away you not only save yourself more possible trouble later, but also you actually "win" that interaction. Its mostly about control, and if you can control your emotions and not react, you will see her lose her control that she so desperately craves. So in reality, its not being a pussy at all. Its being smarter than your opponent.
Because women have so successful turned most of the men into pandering beta male simps, that they will herd attack anyone who actually acts like a proper alpha male.
Kind of like back when I was growing up if your kid was being a brat at the supermarket, everybody expected you to beat their ass right then and there and gave you approving looks and nods when you did. Today you'd have the whole lot of modern fools calling the police on you.
But you know, men kind of deserve it, they raise their daughters to be spoiled narcissistic types that think they deserve better treatment and better respect and better everything because of their gender. They raise these little princesses to think they can do anything and say anything and everybody better suck it up otherwise daddy will be there to beat up anyone that doesn't act like they are special.
Then they wonder a couple decades later why women are so evil and such to the men they marry?...
The greatest threat to this country are single mothers.
Note: that doesn’t mean a man should marry a single mother and put up with someone else’s kids.
Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.
Enjoy some amazing guitar playing!
the good lyrics are at 7:15
“Im free now, baby.
Im free from your spell…”
the good lyrics are at 7:15
“Im free now, baby.
Im free from your spell…”
Here's another take on the "trad-wife" Tomi Lahren.
She's discovered a video from four years ago in which the "trad-wife" says that all men are trash. A lot of Erin's video goes over what most of you have already seen but she points out a few other things from a different perspective.
The internet is forever and Lahren gets busted from something she posted four years ago. I say this because the so-called "trad-wives" are nothing but another way to enslave men.
I don't think any woman can truthfully answer Andrew Wilson's question; "What do men get in return?"
She's discovered a video from four years ago in which the "trad-wife" says that all men are trash. A lot of Erin's video goes over what most of you have already seen but she points out a few other things from a different perspective.
The internet is forever and Lahren gets busted from something she posted four years ago. I say this because the so-called "trad-wives" are nothing but another way to enslave men.
I don't think any woman can truthfully answer Andrew Wilson's question; "What do men get in return?"
The problem I have with both Pearl and this broad's videos, is they are constantly stopping the video every other sentence, in order to interject their opinions, and / or keep trying to tell us what they are saying. We've all got fucking ears.
And this one talks at a snail's pace, (because she likes listening to herself), which makes the whole thing that much more difficult to get through.
It's irritating as hell. Just let the damn video play out, THEN start in with your opinions and analysis. Don't try to hold our hands, and pause the video every 15 seconds, and try to walk us through it sentence by sentence. It's not like we're trying to put together a fucking bedroom set from IKEA for Christ's sake.
Bottom line. Her content is spot on..... As is Pearl's. Their delivery of said information isn't worth a shit.
Great words of advice to our young alpha males here. Thanks for your time of typing that out, bravo
Thanks for the kind words. It's not that I am so smart. It's that I've made a LOT of mistakes. I want to pass on the lessons that I've learned, the hard way.
Thought for the day: If you put a woman on a pedestal, she will always be looking down on you.
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This is why today, more than ever, you need the services of a professional woman slapper. With today's women there is absolutely no room for amateurs.
A discussion of why marriage is dangerous for men would be incomplete without touching on the feminization of the church.
With the almost seven decades that I've been on this earth, I've personally seen a trend in the increasing roles (takeover) of women in the church. When it comes to discussing problems in society I've heard the mantra preached from the pulpit that, "men need to..."
For every one hundred "men need to..." comments I've only heard one "women need to..." from the pulpit.
Even so-called "Christian" marriage counselors beat men over the head and tell them that they need to "man up" but offer no such imperative for the wife. Men are dragged into "Christian" marriage counseling sessions for their reform. If the focus is ever directed at the wife and her culpability, she terminates the counseling and files for divorce.
I'm not saying that the feminization of the church is the sole cause of decline in marriage but it is another factor.
Whether you believe in Jesus or not consider this. Too much of the depiction of Jesus are pictures of a bearded man, clothed in a simple robe, mild, sitting in a field of flowers with a lamb on his lap, a bluebird on one shoulder and a butterfly on the other. That was Him over 2,000 years ago.
The Jesus of today is something different, even though the God of yesterday is the same today and in the future. Take a look at what the Apostle John saw in the book of Revelation. This is the same John that laid his head on Christ's shoulder at the last supper.
"Then I turned to see the voice that was speaking to me, and on turning I saw seven golden lampstands, and in the midst of the lampstands one like a son of man, clothed with a long robe and with a golden sash around his chest. The hairs of his head were white, like white wool, like snow. His eyes were like a flame of fire, his feet were like burnished bronze, refined in a furnace, and his voice was like the roar of many waters. In his right hand he held seven stars, from his mouth came a sharp two-edged sword, and his face was like the sun shining in full strength.
When I saw him, I fell at his feet as though dead. But he laid his right hand on me, saying, 'Fear not, I am the first and the last, and the living one. I died, and behold I am alive forevermore, and I have the keys of Death and Hades. Write therefore the things that you have seen, those that are and those that are to take place after this. As for the mystery of the seven stars that you saw in my right hand, and the seven golden lampstands, the seven stars are the angels of the seven churches, and the seven lampstands are the seven churches." - Revelation 1:12-20
That's the Jesus that women and effeminate men are uncomfortable with. And for good reason; if you aren't saved there won't be any grace for you!
The image of the Jesus that sits in a field of flowers with lambs, bluebirds and butterflies appeals to women and that mindset cascades into all other aspects of the church and into modern marriages.
With the almost seven decades that I've been on this earth, I've personally seen a trend in the increasing roles (takeover) of women in the church. When it comes to discussing problems in society I've heard the mantra preached from the pulpit that, "men need to..."
For every one hundred "men need to..." comments I've only heard one "women need to..." from the pulpit.
Even so-called "Christian" marriage counselors beat men over the head and tell them that they need to "man up" but offer no such imperative for the wife. Men are dragged into "Christian" marriage counseling sessions for their reform. If the focus is ever directed at the wife and her culpability, she terminates the counseling and files for divorce.
I'm not saying that the feminization of the church is the sole cause of decline in marriage but it is another factor.
Whether you believe in Jesus or not consider this. Too much of the depiction of Jesus are pictures of a bearded man, clothed in a simple robe, mild, sitting in a field of flowers with a lamb on his lap, a bluebird on one shoulder and a butterfly on the other. That was Him over 2,000 years ago.
The Jesus of today is something different, even though the God of yesterday is the same today and in the future. Take a look at what the Apostle John saw in the book of Revelation. This is the same John that laid his head on Christ's shoulder at the last supper.
"Then I turned to see the voice that was speaking to me, and on turning I saw seven golden lampstands, and in the midst of the lampstands one like a son of man, clothed with a long robe and with a golden sash around his chest. The hairs of his head were white, like white wool, like snow. His eyes were like a flame of fire, his feet were like burnished bronze, refined in a furnace, and his voice was like the roar of many waters. In his right hand he held seven stars, from his mouth came a sharp two-edged sword, and his face was like the sun shining in full strength.
When I saw him, I fell at his feet as though dead. But he laid his right hand on me, saying, 'Fear not, I am the first and the last, and the living one. I died, and behold I am alive forevermore, and I have the keys of Death and Hades. Write therefore the things that you have seen, those that are and those that are to take place after this. As for the mystery of the seven stars that you saw in my right hand, and the seven golden lampstands, the seven stars are the angels of the seven churches, and the seven lampstands are the seven churches." - Revelation 1:12-20
That's the Jesus that women and effeminate men are uncomfortable with. And for good reason; if you aren't saved there won't be any grace for you!
The image of the Jesus that sits in a field of flowers with lambs, bluebirds and butterflies appeals to women and that mindset cascades into all other aspects of the church and into modern marriages.
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Organized religion is nothing more then 100% certified bullshit. I'm not condemning anyone for believing in God. I just resent all of these churches that, for the most part, have become little more than cults and money collecting services. Using the Bible, and stretching it in order to create their own bullshit, "flock".
Many of these so called "priests" like to set themselves up as a "God" themselves. People go because they like to think it will get them on the express elevator, straight up to the top floor on judgement day.
The fact is, in my 72 years on this Earth, I can honestly say the most fucked up people I've ever met in my life, were all highly religious..... Not to mention the biggest "sinners" you would ever want to meet.
Michael Corleone having everyone killed while he presided at the Baptism, comes to mind. Most all of the Mafia were all highly religious.
Many of these so called "priests" like to set themselves up as a "God" themselves. People go because they like to think it will get them on the express elevator, straight up to the top floor on judgement day.
The fact is, in my 72 years on this Earth, I can honestly say the most fucked up people I've ever met in my life, were all highly religious..... Not to mention the biggest "sinners" you would ever want to meet.
Michael Corleone having everyone killed while he presided at the Baptism, comes to mind. Most all of the Mafia were all highly religious.
I’ve seen exactly the same thing. The church generally loves unaccountable women that believe however they feel is “from god”. The church hates alpha males who believe their role is to be accountable and expect it from others, rather than take a knee to manipulation by the women.
I think that comes from many churches mirroring the attitudes of popular society around them.
Essentially that attitude is rampant and widespread all across society right now as women demand to be without accountability or morals.
Back a long time ago, there was a great quote in the movie As Good as it Gets:
"Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability."
One should add consequences to that list because society pretty much went soft and let women (and 13/80s) get away with everything.
It's hard to stand up for the truth and morals because you get vilified and then persecuted.
So many or most churches start to compromise and accept "current feelings" as valid so they don't get persecuted and so they can get more folks in the pews and hence more money.
Yup. It’s funny, even the outwardly conservative church organizations end up taking a knee to whatever the pastor’s wife and her super focused girl crew spearheads. And the pastor is constantly conflating submission to god’s will with submission to him, his wife, and every bureaucrat in government. I hear it from the pulpit. They sure do work hard to socially exclude any other point of view.
You are not wrong. I believe it started with the MOD squad but it could have been even earlier. Just Hollywood pushing an agenda.
That's the age old thing that has been a "feature" of religion since the dawn of time.
Those practicing priestcraft (aka religion for profit) very quickly form an alliance with the government whereby the government and the religious leaders work hand in hand to keep the masses subservient to each other for profit and power.
What's funny is if you used to play old school Sim City or Sim Civilization, that was like a feature, when the populace was rising up against your tyrannical taxation and rules, you could spend some money to buy off the local priests and build them fancier buildings and have them preach to the people that it was god's will for them to submit to their ruler.
Lots of folks here have a bit of the blinders on and only see it happening in "Christian" churches, but go take a look at things like Islam or many eastern religions and they are even more blatant about religion supporting political power (and of course political power gives religion the friendly reach around for their trouble as well).
It was earlier and has been going strong for over 100 years
"hollywood" is just a tool of a certain group of folks you can't talk about who wish to destroy all that is good and decent so they can rule over the masses.
I haven't read the whole thread, so maybe it was mentioned, but I'm curious whether the OP found a wife. Or did he decide to stay single after reading all those interesting details about marriage, women and relationships?
We need one of them smart guys to take AI and summarize this thread. That would be funny.I haven't read the whole thread, so maybe it was mentioned, but I'm curious whether the OP found a wife. Or did he decide to stay single after reading all those interesting details about marriage, women and relationships?
I haven't read the whole thread, so maybe it was mentioned, but I'm curious whether the OP found a wife. Or did he decide to stay single after reading all those interesting details about marriage, women and relationships?
Here is the biggest problem that men are facing with women today. All in less than 1 minute. These total bitches that possess these completely fucked up attitudes, are precisely what men are running away from today.
They all self evaluate themselves as God's gift to men. If this was the last woman on this planet, I wouldn't fuck her with a borrowed dick, and somebody else doing the pushing!
They all self evaluate themselves as God's gift to men. If this was the last woman on this planet, I wouldn't fuck her with a borrowed dick, and somebody else doing the pushing!
Thought for the day:
If men like Bill Gates, Steve Bezos and Tom Brady couldn't keep their wives happy and satisfied, what makes average Joes on this esteemed forum think that they can do the same with their women?
If men like Bill Gates, Steve Bezos and Tom Brady couldn't keep their wives happy and satisfied, what makes average Joes on this esteemed forum think that they can do the same with their women?
Bezos traded in his wife for a younger hotter model that would give him better sex (or perhaps even just sex at all), and probably treated him really nice.
His wife didn't really complain about suddenly being the richest woman in the world and having all the toy boys she wanted.
Bill Gates... let's say you need to do a whole lot of studies on that one but...
Extreme wealth or fame in the "new money" or "new fame" type groups rarely make for long term stable marriages.
Why put up with anything when you can just be rich on your own and do your own thing.
What makes anyone think those guys have any idea how to have a successful marriage? Losers imo
I'm pretty sure if Jesus Christ was alive today and got married, he would probably be divorced within 10-12 years. I'm sure the judge would AWARD her all heaven and give her all his children!
DON'T get married today, just don't! Women are SHIT!
He would probably cast the devil out of her so she could sit there “clothed and in her right mind”
Honestly this was disgraceful, I knew Alec was a Sissy but i definitely didn't need more proof. I bet they have an awkward silence in the car on their way home.
And it's not just the women. We're producing an entire generation of these complete dicks with ears.
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