For women, love is always conditional. They think that love is a feeling. Love is an action word. It's something that you do not what you feel.
For a woman, love is based on their emotions and it's transactional.
@WTF-2-EDC I am glad that you got "the one." If she continues to stay with you and both of you are happy then you got the unicorn.
For everyone else the unicorn is a myth.
In this video he gets into the statistics of how it's practically impossible to find a traditional wife. It's a little long but enlightening.
I don't have over an hour to watch your video, but "impossible" is silly.
Difficult? Sure.
A good wife has always been rare.
"An excellent wife, who can find
her?
For her worth is far above jewels.
The heart of her husband trusts in her,
And he will have no lack of gain.
She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life."
Proverbs 31:10-12. He is asking "who can find her?" "Her worth is far above jewels" because, like rubies and diamonds, she is rare. This is not 2025. This is almost 3,000 years ago, and he is saying, a good wife is a rare thing and hard to find. Note that the word "husband" here is ba'al, which means literally, "lord" or "master," just as the Hebrew word for marriage is the same word as a verb, meaning ownership or possession, as in a master owns his property. The New Testament mentions this in 1 Peter 3, when it says Sarah obeyed Abraham and called him Lord and that this is an example for all women, thousands of years later when Peter is writing.
But it has never been impossible to find such a wife. It is not impossible today, in 2025.
I have not watched the video, but I have a woman who is hot, a decade younger, and fits the "trad wife" model. Period. And we have a long term marriage. She is home schooling my kids right now while I am working. She was up early making breakfast for the family, eggs, pancakes, oatmeal, and milk or coffee.
"And she rises while it is still night
And gives food to her household,"
Proverbs 31:15
27 She looks well to the ways of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women have done excellently,
but you surpass them all.”
Proverbs 31:27-29
She is also religious and follows the Bible's teaching on women and men, particularly within a marriage. Ephesians 5:22-33, 1 Peter 3:1-7, etc. (as an aside, if you have not read these two passages, especially, sit down and read them, slowly, line by line, and think about each word, what is it saying?). Most churches today disregard this stuff. Not only are the male teachers scared to teach them, but many churches have
women teaching in mixed groups with men contrary to the Bible's clear proscription on this practice - it is not so hard to figure out what a church like that is going to teach. Find out what a woman believes about these passages, and you will know what sort of wife and mother she will be prior to marriage.