The Hornady 147 ELDMs have worked reliably in all 3 of my rifles, and i have not seen any disintegrate yet. Might have missed the odd blowup at distance, i guess you can never be sure. I don’t doubt that some folks are routinely seeing Hornady (and Berger) bullets disintegrate, and i wish the companies would do something about that. However, my research also indicates that some barrels with tall grooves are harder on the bullets, especially at 6.5 PRC speed, and they blow up more easily, due to excessive jacket deformation. So perhaps the barrel makers also have to make improvements... [Maybe polygon grooves are better in this regard, not really sure.]
The 147 ELDM is a very long bullet, and that can be good or bad. If your freebore is short and the the barrel is new, the 147s are not ideal as you lose too much case capacity and therefore speed. If the barrel is worn, it is a way to get some extra life out of an old barrel - if you are lucky and it still shoots well enough in its old age…
Have used 147s with good success out of a Savage 12 LRP, with 3,200 rounds down the pipe, and got some phenomenal groups at 600 at times when the wind died down. Cannot load 140s to a small jump anymore, but the long heavies still work, and with double base powders like RL-26 you can get good speed (2,800 fps or more).
The published BC is very good and based on drop data, appears to be correct. Wind drift benefits are helpful as long as you can maintain adequate speed.
In a new 6.5 CM, I start with lighter bullets (130s to 140s) that can be loaded to mag length without sitting too deep in the case, eating up powder volume. After 1,800 to 2,000 rounds, the lands have moved forward quite a lot (0.15” to 0.2” is typical), then i would switch to 147 or 156 gn projectiles, and get another 500-800 rounds out of the barrel before replacing it.
Btw: Old barrels can sometimes be given new life via an intensive 3 hour “deep clean” (involving a drill and a bronze brush plus a good carbon solvent) to get the baked-on carbon out of the chamber neck and the barrel. Something to be done with great care, as you can damage the barrel in the process, and not a procedure i would recommend for a healthy new barrel.
Good luck!