I disagree. It has been my experience that women want the competent tough man but don't want to put up with being with a competent tough man. Say politically incorrect things, be gone fighting overseas every now and then, want to live in a red state, make fun of her hippy friends and not hang out with them... She starts bitching like crazy and tells you how unacceptable it is for you to be a competent, tough man.
I had a girl I was dating and about to marry tell me all this and tell me that if we lost all our rights in the Constitution it was ok. We would just have to accept it and trust God. This, combined with me finding her lying to me, and a sudden manifestation of separation anxiety regarding her parents (quote: Don't make me choose between my parents and you. Me: That's what marriage means...) and I found myself metaphorically doing the old Arch, Look, Grab red pillow, Pull and throw away, for all I was worth. Time to cut that shit away.
It was a shame too. She was pretty and kind, but...
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