Re: Navy Seal or is he?
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: roggom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Broker</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: roggom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Sure if a guy goes out in public wearing a uniform and Trident, or starts a web page with all his BS stories, then he gets all he deserves. If the guy in question keeps it in the family, so should his confrontation be.
Some men can brush it off, some will eat a 1911. As long as OP is cool with either scenario. </div></div>
That's retarded... So it's ok as long as they only lie to the people who are the closest to them? And please point out an example where someone had stolen valor and upon their outing they opted out. If someone's retarded enough to lie to their own family then eat a bullet because the truth came out then I guess I'm a dick for thinking 2 words... Natural Selection. </div></div>
http://www.cnn.com/US/9605/16/boorda.6p/
Look, you do not have to agree with me, you only have to go on one call to pick up the little pieces of a Marines skull, or pack and wrap a sailor who has hung themselves. Had a Senior Chief cut his own stomach open because he got passed over for Master Chief(selected then pulled by his skipper) etc etc.
We all have a need for approval, if we didnt these boards would not exist. Guys would not post pics of their rifles and groups and all that. Now some folks take it to the extreme and create lies to fit in, some tell these lies so long that they start to believe them as truth. It sickens me to listen to a pathological liar, and no I do not think it is right for this guy to BS his family.
As a leader I have always learned to praise in public and punish in private. If this guy only bragged to a close network of people, then why humiliate in front of the whole world. If he made these claims to the public, then he is responsible to the public.
It is just the way I think and the way I led. We all can not think the same as there would be no balance. In the end it is up to OP to decide what to do.
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Between this and the PTSD thread, please enter reality. If the truth drives someone to suicide, then well, maybe they're needing to hear it more than not; a good pat on the head can do them no good when they're diving deeper into the fantasy world of " I was X" when they were really Y, Z, or back around to B-- never being Alpha.
Approval, or need for it, when it enters the realm of abject lying, is no excuse to not call out the BS. Especially when it's stealing the valor of good and honorable men; even more so when it's stealing from a family the chance to face this obstacle and negotiate it towards better days and healing from this man's inane bullshit-- if it is inane bullshit.