I'd skip the lift in the garage.For the amount of time you'll use it, it'll get in the way 5x as often. Owner of jeeps and humvees.
I'd do a vault door over any # of gun safes.
48" cook top with a griddle. Look at the noise level on the range hood. Consider a pot filler on the cook top.
I did 2 dishwashers. KitchenAid's are highly rated. Get a 33" or 36" sink.
I'd skip most of the ethernet pre-wiring. Go with a mesh system and 3 or more access points(like google wifi). Covers 4k streaming.
I get 115mb/s download in detached barn (its a party room and workshop), no cables necessary, save your money there.
Did a rainfall and traditional showerhead in mbr. two separate controls. nice, not much $$ extra.
I poured a large concrete patio, 1.25" low, layed travertine stone over the top - easy. Concrete is $3.75 here a sq/ft installed, but the trucks are heavy, so get it done upfront.
if you can do a walk in shower without glass, do it.
Granite and Dolomite countertops can take 400 degree heat without issue. Quartz (in resin, very common) will burn if someone puts a hot saucepan or pot on it.
Get low sone (quite) high cfm bath fans (Panasonic makes them).
Insulation in laundry room walls.
Good lighting in can (ran that last night, two led cans)
Don't skimp on insulation. especially living areas over cold areas (like crawls and garages in northern climates)