As a kid, grew up having a bulldog as a pet and best friend, i have had several over the years and i have had to put one to sleep. the idea is to make it a quick one. can't stand seeing them suffer.
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@Edward156 - I'm a veterinarian. I have to do this every day. It is exceedingly RARE that people don't have the same feelings that you do/did when the time comes for their pets. I hate this part of the job, but I am grateful that I can be of help to painlessly end suffering when there isn't another solution. One week ago today I had to do it for one of my own. Bandit was with us for 10 years after we rescued him. I'm still trying to recover from it this morning, but know from experience that the cycle just takes longer than that. In the 28 years I've been a vet, I've had to put down 6 of my own and it never gets any easier. All to say, no reason to be surprised at your reaction to the situation. It is by far the norm, not the exception.
Brother, I feel for 'ya, I really do. Nothing but nothing can bring a hardcore motherfucker crying to his knees like losing a cat or dog!
I ALMOST had to go through this recently, my cat started pissing blood and it kept getting worse to the point she couldn't go anymore and just cried. She'd been to the vet, I took her this last time and begged them to fix my cat, knowing if they didn't it was the end. Well, I guess I impressed on them the importance and they did everything and found a rare bladder stone, removed it (was first all the vets had ever seen, one reason it went unnoticed). She's like a new cat and I'm so damn happy about that. I couldn't have dealt with losing her after all the shit I've been through the last two years. And I love my dog every bit as much.
But I guess that day will come and I dread it more than my own day.
Cats are funny about behaviour... Mine wouldn't give me the time of day for the first two years of her life, except to play, now years later she HAS to be held a few times a day and generally sleeps next to me and the dog. They're family! After all, who the hell else ever sleeps in your bed but your closest family?
I know it's hard, but after a bit of time it does help to invite another furball into the mix.
Thinking of all of you who have lost pets recently or are looking at doing so, again, I truly feel for you.
I did the exact same thing with my Best Friend for 16 years. At the time, it was the hardest thing I had to do, but no way in hell was he going to feel alone in his final moments..That's why I was with my dog until the very end. The doctor gave him the injection, and I stayed there and held him until he was gone. There was no way I was leaving him alone at the end...period.
I'm trying to help you when I say that you should just bow out now.I’ll just keep on digging. Sooner or later it’ll collapse and fill in on me.
will have to with a english bulldog shortly. She has cancer.
Thanks man. The vets actually rang me today to see how is was. We had a talk. I knew the grumpy little shit had kidney problems but he just went downhill so fast. The vets reckoned he had a tumor of some kind as the treatment the vets done had no effect. So there was something else there. The vet told me last night she suspected a tumor and if she done a scan and found one he would have to be put to sleep anyways. It wasn't fair on the little man to put him through that. So it was the best decision.
Jessz I was 21 years in and seen my fair share of bodies and hardly blinked but last night hurt like a mother fucker. Just home from work now and instinctively I went to shout out for him and then had to stop myself..
Thanks guys for the kind words. I know it will get better. Just today its not.
Dippy.. Your an asshole. No wonder all the women in your life keep banging your buddies..
He was a grumpy old bastard but he was my grumpy old bastard.
Because I’m and America and I have the right to say what I want.
I agree with that statement.I had to put down one of my English bull terriers down a while back due to cancer,and it wasn't easy,but had to end his suffering at a mere 7 yo.sometimes people want to hang on while the animal is suffering.not fair.
i know you were. I have since backed down like a neutered dog. I am an asshole
Punish me as you see fit
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Most people I have come across in life that would treat a dog with abuse and like any “ole critter” have some pent up issues and are just not good people. Any one that would ever treat my dogs like any “ole critter” will also be treated like any “ole critter” by me!
My wife's cousin married a real winner of a dumbfuck. I've heard tales that he'll kick dogs that walk up to him. For whatever reason we have to extend an invite to this asshat whenever we do family shit at the house, and I've been watching to see if he tries to kick my dogs.
Lord help him when he does, cuz I don't care who's feelings get hurt, he's gonna regret doing that shit.
I've had to put down a number of pets, while others got killed or died of old age.
Sucks when all that work comes to an end.
I've had more compassion for a F'n cur dog, than I've had for some of the humans I've known in my life. MacHad two puppies growning up.
One died of old age, one died from a 22 mag.
It’s an animal not a human
same with our two. they loved car rides so we drove to the vet and had the vet come out to the car to finish. vs getting hit by a car or dying in their sleep, i think actually ending their lives is what makes it so hard or at least harder to deal with.That's why I was with my dog until the very end. The doctor gave him the injection, and I stayed there and held him until he was gone. There was no way I was leaving him alone at the end...period.
I knew a guy once that hated and mistreated animals! He now sips from a straw and is missing both feet!
I had my best friend (120lb. male Rott) put down in '08. Great dog, smart, great with people/kids, did what he was told (most of the time), looked intimidating when he needed to, went with me damn near everywhere. I still get choked up sometimes when I look at pictures or see someone else with a dog, doing dog things.
Haven't had the heart to replace him yet, but one day, maybe. Just afraid I'll find one, but he/she won't have the same intelligence and then regret the decision. But yeh, you get more attached than you think you do.
Mac
Really? Deer are just a long legged rat that carry deadly diseases.@Palmetto-Pride
I never said or have abused one single animal. I just was raised to were you have a sick pet and you put it down and move on, keep your emotions buried and move on. Never once saw my Father cry or sad about the death of a critter. I can remember exactly every single deer I have wounded bow hunting when I was young and still feel like a POS for not getting a clean kill.
If you died inside a house alone and your pet was locked up with you in the house, you think it would cry or get hungry and start eating your dead body?
i know you were. I have since backed down like a neutered dog. I am an asshole
Punish me as you see fit
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Damn dude....... That is the only instance in which I've asked myself "would I pull the trigger?" and not come up with an instant "yes".
I wonder if a man who sheds tears for an animal has shown the same or deeper emotional compassion in front of the Almighty for repentance and the damnation his peers face in Hell for their sins...
Best be saving those tears for what really matters.
I will take my whipping in public for my wickedness and wrong doing
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I understand now. I think you're right. In that instance (mortal injury, unbearable pain) I would do it. It would haunt me, that much I will tell you.20" of snow, came up over a ride in my driveway that leaves you looking at the sky, snow everywhere. He was standing in the tire rut and when I saw him it was too late. No time for a vet, he was broke down in the back and screaming.
+1if you will read your Bible instead of thumping people with it, you will find that we are given Dominion over the animals. I'm not sure you know what that means
If you love dogs, don't put it off like I did, you'll just waste very valuable time and miss out on unconditional love.
Seriously,
How can you not love a face like that?
I get ya. I have toyed around with the idea for awhile now, especially since I'm now retired. I'm used to large breed dogs, but we like to travel. Since we don't do most of our traveling by m/c anymore, we can find some ugly small dog to ride in the truck/car with us, so we don't have to board it. Time will tell. I might just have to look at some rescue dogs for the hell of it. Mac
@Edward156
I've been driving all day... literally so my posts have been swift and inelegant, I'll try to remedy that.
I've owned many dogs in 50 years, thus, I have experienced many losses. I have "abided the presence" of two cats in my lifetime. They are the only two cats I've met that I was reasonably sure could speak. The one I have now absolutely says momma and morning...actually I haven't heard him say momma in a few years except when he is in my bedroom, and I keep him out of there cause he creeps me TF out.
Anyway.
My wife of 3 years brought her boxer from England. I actually didn't want her to bring him...but I wouldn't have ever suggested she leave him there.
I wasn't planning on having anymore dogs, or cats, or any pet. I had had a bad run of tragedy and had to shoot my dog on top of all that. I had decided simply to start eliminating potential sources of pain I had control over. Don't get like that, I think someone else mentioned this. Oscar is old and grey at 11, heck he could outlive me still, but we've noticed him slowing down for a while. His new home has been great for him, he loves living in the wilds of flyover country.
I started thinking about how I had become attached to him last summer, and told the House Wench Oscar needed a buddy. She said she thought I had sworn off pets. I told her I had come to the conclusion life is worth sharing. My kids are grown, and the only kid we have to raise now is my 85 year old mother.
HW was against getting another dog, I had actually "infected" her with my insulatory ideology.
I got her another boxer puppy for her birthday this year.
My new mantra is to live life and share life.
You can't replace the one you lost, but I would encourage you to find another "Ed Jr."
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My dad has shot at least 10 of our bird dogs once they got down of old age! I don’t know how he did it. I took mine to get them put to sleep. Every time my dad shot one he’d sit down and cry like a kid!I know a tough as nails, farrier, preacher, and cowboy poet put his ol' horse down the old fashioned way. He felt he had to do it himself. Man, that wasn't easy.
Will my pet be with me in heaven? I'm really sad right now because my dog just died. We've had the same dog ever since I was a little kid, and I can't even imagine life without him. I asked my mom if I'd see him in heaven and she told me to go ask my Sunday school teacher. I asked my Sunday school teacher and he said no, heaven is for people, not animals. That really upset me. Do you think my Sunday school teacher is right?
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We're so sorry to hear that your dog died. It sounds like he was an important part of your family for a very long time, and we understand how hard it is to think about life going on without him. It hurts a lot; and yet the hurting isn't all bad, because it shows that you have a lot of love and compassion in your heart.
Did you know that the Bible says that good people care about their pets? Proverbs 12:10 tells us this: "A righteous man regards the life of his animal." With this in mind, we believe the best thing you can do is turn to God in prayer and ask Him to comfort you whenever you miss your dog. He cares about everything that concerns you, and His love for you is greater than anything you can imagine.
We also realize that you're wondering if you will see your dog in heaven someday. This is a question people of all ages have asked, and it's a hard one to answer. You see, the Bible doesn't specifically tell us what happens to animals after they die. This might be the reason why your Sunday school teacher said that there won't be any pets in the life to come. His answer seems to make sense from a certain point of view. But we think there's another way to think about this.
First of all, it's important to remember that the Bible tells us that human beings have a special place in God's plan. For one thing, only human beings have been created "in the image of God" (Genesis 1:27). Because of this, only people (not animals) can look forward to being sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father after we die. Along with Jesus, we will inherit God's wonderful and eternal kingdom!
But, from our point of view, animals might be there too! Romans 8:18-27 tells us that Christ came to earth to redeem all of creation, not just human beings. Did you know that some of the prophets in the Bible had visions of the peaceful kingdom of God, and their visions included different kinds of animals? Isaiah 11:6, 7 gives us a beautiful description: "The wolf also shall dwell with the lamb, the leopard shall lie down with the young goat. The calf and the young lion and the fatling together; and a little child shall lead them. The cow and the bear shall graze; their young ones shall lie down together; and the lion shall eat straw like the ox."
To say this another way, the Bible gives us an amazing glimpse of heaven. Even though we can't even begin to imagine exactly what it will be like or how wonderful it will be, we are confident that there will be lots of life there! It won't just be a place where human souls and heavenly spirits float around. Revelation 21:1 says that heaven is a place where we will enjoy a glorious and perfect version of creation as we already know it! As you've probably learned in Sunday school, God created all the different species to be Adam's friends and neighbors in the Garden of Eden (Genesis 2:18-20). Perhaps they will have a place in His eternal Kingdom, as well.
So then, will you get to be with your dog in heaven someday? Equally sincere Christians will have differing answers to this question. And though it's not up to us to say for sure, we think it's a definite possibility.
How many of you vyys have ever had to have a pet, a dog or cat out to sleep?
I had to have my cat put to sleep last night and I'm very upset about it He was 17 and a grumpy old bastard. He'd jump up on the couch and sometiems let me rub him, other times he'd hiss at me like " WTF do you think your doing fucker"..
Im actually surprised at my reaction to be honest. Hell I've been shot twice, stabbed and blown up by a 600lb IED and it sucks. My wife used to say he is me in a cat form.. I can't believe I'm missing the grumpy little fucker the way I am..
Rocky sound exactly like Cupcake.. The kids named him, what can I say. He could be a mean vicious old grumpy bastard but he always made me smile, even when he's scratching shit out of me.The Wife brought a cat home from the pound, named him Simon Peter. I called him Rocky. Surly SOB; he grew to 22lb of gonnabiteyerass wiseguy. It got so I was the only one who could handle him and not end up bleeding. I would get home from work at 1:00 AM, walk through the bedroom in the dark to have beer in my recliner in the living room and unwind before bed; and sometimes, Pete would tackle me and bring my down in the dark. BTW, I worked 16 years straight as a Second Shift Mainframe Operator.
But he was my cat.
We'd go on trips and board him at a cat kennel. The owner was a special dude; he even had to get dressed up in hockey goalie armor to put Pete in and out of his cage for exercise. No foolin'. Paid extra, but everybody prospered and all was fine.
Then Pete got sick, and the local Vet had him overnight for "observation". Called up in the evening and the night attendant said they had just finished giving him a course of Chemo. Never one word about cancer from the Vet. Told them to keep the cat comfortable, we'd be picking Pete up in the morning.
When we got there, they waved a bill for $850 and refused to release the cat until it got paid. Paid the bill, took the cat to our usual Vet and Pete took the Big Sleep. I vowed then and there that henceforth I was a chicken pussy, and would not stay with the pet through that ever again. I also prayed to God that the first Vet would get his comeuppance.
In other news, the first Vet had an issue with his car; the engine needed a complete rebuild. Seems somebody had put Karo in his gas tank.
Sometimes God needs a hand...
Greg