My thoughts:
- I'm not sure what powder you are using, but use one that is known to have great success for 6.5 CM. H4350 is the go-to here, but there are other options too
- I've always found Hornady brass to be somewhat limiting when it comes to achieving the best SD/ES. I have better results with Lapua SRP brass
- Seat your primers as deep as possible
- Use 2 to 3 thou neck tension
- Reloading is all about consistency. Consistent powder charge, consistent shoulder bump, consistent seating depth, consistent primer seating depth, consistent neck tension, etc.
- FL dies are fine. I use FL dies and get 6-7 SD with 6.5 Creedmoor
- IMO, annealing and trimming aren't going to be big needle movers for what you are trying to accomplish. These are items you can pick up later on down the road