Owning from 2021 through 2023 seems to me to be likely to cost 30-50% of the asset value at this time. Sure, spread over 30+ years you still end up ahead, but being able to avoid the cost of a huge downside is not a bad thing. As luck would have it, I’ve sold relatively high and not bought back in yet. If there is no way for a high middle class earner to re-enter the market, so be it. Avoiding watching my net worth drop $300K is nice.
That is another thing to think about. IMHO again I think WHAT you buy is pretty critical. So many want to "keep up with the Jones" and like Waylon said "four car garage and still building on". Why? I have a rather small 3bdr 3 bath house.....we built it just what we wanted. Roughly 1800sq feet not counting the basement. Big enough for two of us and ?two? kids, no more. Ended up with just one kid, but why do you need so much house for so few people? Is it to impress people? Ok valid reason I guess, but I hate people so why should I care. So my small house was built for us to basically die in. No need to move, however warmer would be nice, cold is starting to really hurt. So none of the costs to "upsize" or "downsize". Just stay put. It is enough, and has what the wife and I wanted....a little land, enough to shoot on, enough to garden in, enough to build a shop on, and no zoning requirements. It is what we wanted.
Story time:
I have a buddy I have known for over 50 years (he reminded me of that not long ago....gee thanks) I knew his brothers but not real well. One went on to marry a pretty girl, he became a Dr. And had what the Kansas City area calls the "johnson county lifestyle" HUGE house, couple kids doing every activity possible, fancy car, and he worked....ALL THE TIME, 3 different Dr. type jobs, as well as being on this board and that board. He was not happy, and oddly enough as what usually happens the last kid gets out of Highschool and the marriage falls apart.
Fast forward to today and he is living on a farm with horses and chickens, still does the Dr. thing, only with "normal Dr. type hours" and we all know what that means. Married again and even according to my friend is more happy now then he has been in the last 40 years.
Where that brings me is, did he try the other lifestyle and just not like it, thought he would but did not? Or is the "slower" lifestyle really more what people really do what, they are just to "busy" to know it.
To circle all the way back into our current discussion, we spend so much money on the things we think we want, all of us are guilty of this to some extent. When doing something as big as a house it really pays to sit down and really think is this where I want to spend the rest of my days, at least my "money earning" days.
I understand that areas change, my first house bought with a VA loan was in a nice area, quiet. City built a bridge over the highway and that allowed the "trash" to come over. Our area went from a nice older area to a total shit hole in short order, we had to get out of there......I had an "escort" agency across the street.....no I never used it.
Eh long ramble, sorry.