Maggie’s This happend to a friend...

[spiralseal]

He was cheating on his wife with another woman, her husband found out, went to his house, knocked on the door, when my bro came to the door, the other guy said " is your wife home? he said yes, the other guy said"I want you to get your wife and tell her what you have been doing to mine" I know what he did, but I ask, What would you do?

 

[EventHorizon]

Re: This happend to a friend...

"Honey! Meatloaf!"

 

[jcfd2201]

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Depends on how big the guy is!

 

[spiralseal]

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Should it matter?

 

[The Mechanic]

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<span style="font-size: 8pt"> Kill him </span>

 

[snave58]

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start packing my bags, grabbing all my guns and toys, and get ready for the shit to hit the fan. she is going to find out one way or the other now.

 

[jcfd2201]

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Okay I had to go out the engine bay and talk with my guys on this one. There are too many unknown variables to answer this. Things like how big the guy is, what was his demeanor, any prior encounters, previous friend or acquaintance, what kind of shape you marriage is in, and a few others that were kicked around.

I personally wouldn't put myself in that position in the first place. I think I would most likely step outside closing the door behind me and attempt to have a civil converstaion with him and prevent him from talking to my wife at all.

One of my firefighters said he would have just hit the guy without saying a word and closed the door.

 

[Chiller]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: The Mechanic</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <span style="font-size: 8pt"> Kill him </span> </div></div>

which one....

 

[Chiller]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jcfd2201</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

One of my firefighters said he would have just hit the guy without saying a word and closed the door. </div></div>

That best be one of those hits that take him out of the game.....I dare say the guy who can a knocking "might" just be loaded for Bear.......just sayin

 

[spiralseal]

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OK, a little bigger than him, and really pissed, he was not packing, just really pissed,when I talked to him, I said, WTF, your married 18 yrs, she is amazing and beautiful, what he did was call his wife over and then told what he was doing, she is divorcing him....... honestly I would have kicked the shit out of the guy to save my wife the embarrassment, even if I took a beating....

 

[redirt78]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: spiralseal</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> honestly I would have kicked the shit out of the guy to save my wife the embarrassment, even if I took a beating.... </div></div>

That ^ makes no sense. The embarrassment the wife suffered is not because he didn't "kick the guys ass." Its because he cheated on her.


Even if you kicked his ass your wife would walk out to see what the hell was going on and the bloody dude would explain and you'd look like an even bigger dick.

If you got your ass kicked then you would look like a complete f'n idiot, a pussy and still a cheater getting a divorce.

Maybe if he decided to fight and did win then he would have saved <span style="font-weight: bold">himself</span> a little embarrassment instead of being called out and told on like he was a little kid. I believe the divorce would've still happened though.


He was screwed as soon as there was a knock on the door. Any way it could have worked out he knew what he was doing and that divorce was a possibility/probability. Looks like he paid the price for what he was doing and sounds like he's lucky he dodged an ass whipping to boot.

 

[spiralseal]

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I beg to differ, I know the wife, I know him, she would rather have not heard it......

 

[spiralseal]

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And you are correct, I would have not cheated, I left a long term marriage, and I did not cheat, other reasons, but I would not have done that to her...

 

[High Binder]

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Say "OK" and close the door.

Then I'd have to tell my wife 'cus she's going to find out anyway...

If you punch the dude and he files charges then you'll be in jail while she moves all her stuff and yours out of the house...

Pays to be cool and think before you act...

 

[Pat M]

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Swap wives , or "which bitch was yours?"

 

[redirt78]

Re: This happend to a friend...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: spiralseal</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I beg to differ, I know the wife, I know him, she would rather have not heard it...... </div></div>I think the dude coming over and knocking on the door eliminated the fact that she wasn't going to hear about it. So that's out the window too

 

[spiralseal]

Re: This happend to a friend...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: redirt78</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: spiralseal</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I beg to differ, I know the wife, I know him, she would rather have not heard it...... </div></div>I think the dude coming over and knocking on the door eliminated the fact that she wasn't going to hear about it. So that's out the window too </div></div>

It's not, Hearing it from him, and not in front of an angry man is what I meant... Understand?

 

[redirt78]

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Yeah I get that but from the description of the bigger, pissed off guy wanting to see the confession it wasn't your buddies decision. I think he got told how it was going down and he just hung his head with his bottom lip shriveled up and said "yes sir" followed by "honey, could you come here for a minute?"

 

[spiralseal]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: redirt78</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yeah I get that but from the description of the bigger, pissed off guy wanting to see the confession it wasn't your buddies decision. I think he got told how it was going down and he just hung his head with his bottom lip shriveled up and said "yes sir" followed by "honey, could you come here for a minute?" </div></div>

You are correct......

 

[redirt78]

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That's all I meant but I see what you were saying too. It would have been a lot cooler for him and his wife to talk about it without Lou Ferigno standing there breathing fire down his neck.

 

[spiralseal]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: redirt78</div><div class="ubbcode-body">That's all I meant but I see what you were saying too. It would have been a lot cooler for him and his wife to talk about it without Lou Ferigno standing there breathing fire down his neck. </div></div>

+1

 

[Furtaker_.223]

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I hate to hear your buddy is getting divorced of over 18 years of marriage, but before he cheated he should of maned up and ended it. To cheat on your wife is wrong. But if you are going to do it, do it out of state. Don't do it close to home.

 

[oneshotkyle]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: furtaker_.223</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> To cheat on your wife is wrong. But if you are going to do it, do it out of state. Don't do it close to home. </div></div>


i thought a different area code worked. fuel is expensive to be driving out of state.lol

 

[bmarc69]

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Around here it's called the 3 county rule!!!

 

[KYS]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: spiralseal</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I beg to differ, I know the wife, I know him, she would rather have not heard it...... </div></div>


So why post this asking what would we all do?

 

[alreadygone]

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<span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="text-decoration: underline">DENY</span></span> Through the fight/arse whipping, confrontation with the "other" woman, divorce, till the last dying breath. If they want to they'll believe it.

Bob

 

[spiralseal]

Re: This happend to a friend...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: KYS338</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: spiralseal</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I beg to differ, I know the wife, I know him, she would rather have not heard it...... </div></div>


So why post this asking what would we all do? </div></div>

Because it was interesting...

 

[dpairborneranger]

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Time for a "double-date"

 

[x ring accuracy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DonniePD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Time for a "double-date" </div></div>
LMAO, sorry, I know this shit isn't funny.

 

[Iamironman]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: alreadygone</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="text-decoration: underline">DENY</span></span> </div></div>

This

I would have been like "And your wife is who? Never heard of her, get off my property"

 

[Ridgeback80]

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well sorry to say but shit happens when you f*** around ! id say your friend is luck he only got a divorce!