To the OP. it seems as if almost every serious reply says your design won't work. In my area a farmer cleared his ditches for his own property and the Enviro idiots fined the crap out of him for distrubing "wetlands".
If you don't want to listen to the guys posting, then why ask at all? If that's the case and all you wanted was a rubber stamp of your project, then go ahead.
It is all speculation. I am speculating and so is everyone else.
For the wording of "keeping me from dying", tell yall what. I will load down that 32' gooseneck with steel and get it up to 12,000 pounds. I can push it over the bridge with my skid steer, and my skid steer stay on land. If the bridge fails and my trailer falls, I will be the first to admit the naysayers were right.