that old trick. one of my buds came to work one day and was all happy and had to show us the new truck “the wife bought him”. so after looking at his truck, i asked him if she got new job? uh, no. so i ask, “her dad die?”. uh, no. then i ask “then where did she get the money to buy you a truck?”. yeah……you know where this is going, dont ya?I gotta ask. Do you both have separate bank acts and she pulls her weight in the money dept? If not, then it’s really just your money she spent on a credit probably that you will pay for ultimately.
Anyway, I’m not trying to be negative. Enjoy it. Have fun!
Still, I’d work on getting separate bank acts ASAP.
twice divorced and was bent over a barrel getting sledgehammered with the saddle the courts put on me..and i STILL had more disposable income than the same guys i worked with who were married. every FUCKING time. fucking sad, really.
i dont pretend to know know the OP’s situation. but i do know what i’ve seen during the course of my life in regards to how marriage shakes out for men. and VERY few times, does the male get a fair shake. before, during, and after. if it wasnt for pussy, we’d hunt them from horseback.