I was coming home from work last night when I saw a bunch of cars stopping. I took a right on the street I lived and saw a lump in the road. At first I thought it was a dog, but then for some reason I turned around. I parked in the side of the road and saw that it was a woman. I went to her to give her some help and immediately I thought she was dead. At the time, there was one man on the phone with 911 and about 20 people standing around. I checked her pulse on her wrist, no luck. On the neck, no luck. As I reached to roll her over I heard multiple people shout "don't move her!" The flash of my family (I have twins on the way) and how our legal system is so messed up; I didn't want to spend the right of my life paying this person's family. An awful accident it was, but not my fault. So I comforted the woman and heard the last "ugggh" as she gave up. Another woman ran up and said "I'm medically trained" and then I just walked away. The lady was gone and I passed by a cop. He must've known because he was just standing there. I went home to my wife, smoked a cigarette and went to bed.
Here's the story:
NHP Identifies Woman Killed by Car While Crossing Fernley Street - KTVN Channel 2 - Reno Tahoe News Weather, Video -
My question is: should I have rolled her over and gave CPR? I realized this would have been almost completely in vain as this woman was hit by a vehicle going 40+ mph and was pretty banged up. However it has bugged me because I feel as though I let the fear of what may have happened to my family overcome the urge to give her CPR. It just seems as though it would be fitting that I would be sued by the victim's family for rolling her over (which they may try to say effectively killed her). Whether or not I won the case, proper lawyer representation would have been an almost insurmountable burden because we don't have a significant savings as is.
I know paramedics, firefighters, police officers and emt's are all backed by the insurance of the company, but me as a citizen, I cannot risk my family's well being. I have heard of the "Good Samaritan laws" but in a circumstance where maybe you shouldn't move the person, couldn't I be found guilt of negligence? I have also heard conflicting thoughts over what to do in a situation like this. CPR would start the circulation, but moving the victim of a massive trauma may sever the spinal cord / stem. I knew emergency services response time would have been quick and any issues caused by circulation would have been minimal. In fact, I was only on the scene about 75 seconds before the police arrived.
About me: I have been CPR certified since 16, marine infantry, combat vet, TCCC qualified, and going to school for nursing. My wife seems freaked out that the fact the lady died doesn't bother me nor the blood on my pants. After being in Afghanistan and seeing all of that; death just isn't as bothersome as the "what if" scenarios.
So what do you think? As a civilian, first responder, military member, father, husband, provider? Am I beating myself up over nothing?
Originally I intended to post this in the military / law enforcement section, but I am hoping to get a variety of opinions from a larger group than a bunch of hard-chargers. I get it and until I found out I was going to be a dad, that was me. However I now have a family that depends on me and I cannot let them down.
Here's the story:
NHP Identifies Woman Killed by Car While Crossing Fernley Street - KTVN Channel 2 - Reno Tahoe News Weather, Video -
My question is: should I have rolled her over and gave CPR? I realized this would have been almost completely in vain as this woman was hit by a vehicle going 40+ mph and was pretty banged up. However it has bugged me because I feel as though I let the fear of what may have happened to my family overcome the urge to give her CPR. It just seems as though it would be fitting that I would be sued by the victim's family for rolling her over (which they may try to say effectively killed her). Whether or not I won the case, proper lawyer representation would have been an almost insurmountable burden because we don't have a significant savings as is.
I know paramedics, firefighters, police officers and emt's are all backed by the insurance of the company, but me as a citizen, I cannot risk my family's well being. I have heard of the "Good Samaritan laws" but in a circumstance where maybe you shouldn't move the person, couldn't I be found guilt of negligence? I have also heard conflicting thoughts over what to do in a situation like this. CPR would start the circulation, but moving the victim of a massive trauma may sever the spinal cord / stem. I knew emergency services response time would have been quick and any issues caused by circulation would have been minimal. In fact, I was only on the scene about 75 seconds before the police arrived.
About me: I have been CPR certified since 16, marine infantry, combat vet, TCCC qualified, and going to school for nursing. My wife seems freaked out that the fact the lady died doesn't bother me nor the blood on my pants. After being in Afghanistan and seeing all of that; death just isn't as bothersome as the "what if" scenarios.
So what do you think? As a civilian, first responder, military member, father, husband, provider? Am I beating myself up over nothing?
Originally I intended to post this in the military / law enforcement section, but I am hoping to get a variety of opinions from a larger group than a bunch of hard-chargers. I get it and until I found out I was going to be a dad, that was me. However I now have a family that depends on me and I cannot let them down.