Douche bag fondles my married friend

So I stopped in at my local sports bar/grill last night to chat with my friend (32 years old) and enjoy a bowl of chili. I was sitting at the bar, and about 4 seats down from me, this 25ish yr old dude was constantly hurling flirtatious remarks at my friend working the bar. The "so what you doin after you get off? We should do something"..."youre lookin dammmn good." Etc etc. Shes worked there for 11 years. Been married the past 5. Everybody knows shes married and has 2 kids. But yeah, shes really pretty and has a rockin bod. Ive seen many guys flirt with her, of course that will happen at a bar. But last night just totally floored me.

The dude would "close talk" into her ear, what im sure of was sexual remarks. All she would do is giggle, laugh, blush and smile. Never once said..."Um. No. Im married. Quit trying." Nothing along those lines. Just wait. It gets better. He eventually goes BEHIND the bar to fill his own glass. While he was back there, he hip bumps her in the ass. Walks down the bar a few feet, walks back by her and squeezes her ass. I saw it clear as day. She never said a word. All she did was sorta glance over her shoulder after the squeeze. He also fumbled around in her back jeans pocket "to get the bottle opener". I asked her...."whats up with this guy?" when he was busy fumbling around with his beer. Ya know, giving her an out to say something if she was uncomfortable with the situation. Her reply...."Oh, he used to work here." WTF? That is not what I was referring to. I said...."No. All the sexual advances and the ass grab." Her reply..."Oh i just ignore it. Hes always like that." WTF! Shes continues...."I also dont want to get in trouble by the owners if I make the customers mad." I said...."What I saw was sexual harassment." She was just making excuses because she liked it.

I said...."You handled that situation like shit. And I was not impressed. And honestly, I lost a lot of respect for you tonight."

My guess, since he used to work there, hes got what he wanted off her before. Thats why he was so pushy and comfortable with putting his hands on her. Since she didnt say anything to him, she was basically giving him permission to continue. I feel for her husband and 2 adorable little girls. That marriage is doomed.

Your title says douche bag fondles my married friend. I’m late to this thread and maybe it’s been said but it sounds like the only douche bag is your married friend. The guy is just being a fucking guy and if he isn’t married he can do what the hell he wants. I’m married with kids and having a bartender wife is almost as dumb as being married to a stripper haha if she is a dumb bitch it’s going not work out to well. You should be mad at ur married friend, not the guy who it hitting on her.
 
I think the bitch is his "paypal", she cut him out, and now, somebody started a "fucking paypal" thread. Jerry starts a prostitute thread, 3082xx starts a pissed off at his pal thread, Bender starts a pigeon sex thread, and now a fucking paypal thread, kinda all tied in maybe...
Ha..
 
You forgot the marijuana thread, and the heavy metal thread,

Sex and Drugs and Rock and Roll its only natural

Well no sex for OP,,, maybe the other threads can help him finally lose his virginity.

I think the bitch is his "paypal", she cut him out, and now, somebody started a "fucking paypal" thread. Jerry starts a prostitute thread, 3082xx starts a pissed off at his pal thread, Bender starts a pigeon sex thread, and now a fucking paypal thread, kinda all tied in maybe...
Ha..
 
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The OP is a good guy around here. I'll give him credit that he's probably genuinely telling the truth in his original post. He'll be back once he realizes this is what happens to posts in the Pit. They are either super-comforting and affirmative or, well, they go like this one has so far :LOL:

Case in point:

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girls know how to deal with men

Women, who allow men to hit on they use to be called homewreckers.... now its liberated


It's her life

It's not your battle to fight for her

you need to decide if
1) you want to keep her as a friend with her faults
2) not keep her as a friend


it's not your battle to help her destroy tips at work, nor establish a different career
 
OP really brought a good one here. Congratulation to him all around, being a good concerned friend to start with then the "Pit" where he was tortured for the most pages in I don't know how long.

I hope we could get as many pages out of the "Annual Altar Tucker's Backyard Spring Fling" with Bobcats and backhoes building the Motorsickle track and Muddrasslin Pit". and what else can you think of?? FM

Cold as hell here and "Cabin Fever" sets in.
 
I,m new to here and have damn sure learned not to come here looking for sympathy from you bastards. Carry on the good work . n P.S did he ever post her picture and work sch ?