Ok, I agree that we can choose to leave at anytime before the item, or the money exchanges hands. This is a discussion forum....some people like to discuss the ways in which they think the customer should be treated.
Just imagine that we are all sitting in the waiting area of said restaurant and the hostess left 45 minutes ago, and no one has ever been taken to a table.....maybe people start murmuring to each other that its time to go find some other restaurant.
No one has demanded that Paul give them any updates, we aren't forcing him to do so. We are just all sitting around wondering if this product is ever going to come to fruition, and discussing our opinions on the product and Paul's customer service/marketing/business acumen, etc