Ok, reports are filed. Now, it is not about catching him, it is about protecting the Mrs and identifying the sob. No traps. Cameras. Everywhere. All around the house, in the cars, on the roof, everywhere. Get the Mrs a simple to operate shotgun, short barrel, 12 gauge. Train her. Go to the bedroom, call the cops, get the gun, put the phone down. Do not fire until he's in the room. Yell allot before then.
It is a very scary thing. When it happened to us the Mrs and I had the firearm use discussion. She could not come to grips with the possibility of using one so she could not safely carry one. The BG would take it off her. Thank God for the state police, they hovered over her for a couple weeks until they caught the bastard. I knew who it was, and was ready to go hunting, it was hard not to. But the cops were so good I did not have to worry. To this day, they still check in with us and its been 15 years.